In your journeys pursuing the other sex, just remember: when you get rejected, it’s nothing personal. Simply fix your methods. Learning how to create attraction takes practice. It may be a bumpy road, because…
Many of the methods you learn will go against your habits.
Replacing old habits with new habits may feel strange, but these are growing pains – you will be thankful when you’ve gone through the process and have a shiny new habit in place.
For instance, a common habit some girls have is being too nice. Always overextending yourself, always available. This is the way to instantly lower your attractiveness. Break this habit. Adding a little edge to your game (know when to playfully tease, alternate distance and closeness) may seem uncomfortable at first, but you are simply learning a new habit. A habit that will serve you by increasing your attractiveness exponentially. How do you create new habits? Practice…
Practice makes perfect.
If you pursue one man and get rejected, just shrug it off. It’s nothing personal. Pick Up Artistry is a numbers game and a method game. By pursuing more men, you are increasing your chances for success. Simultaneously, you are learning through experience which methods work and which are duds. One failure is nothing. Five failures is something to learn from. Your ratio of success will increase the more you practice, in large part because you will be learning from your failures. Which brings us to…
Learn from your failures.
Albert Einstein said it best:
“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”
Every human interaction is an opportunity for you to learn from. If a method isn’t working, change it! If you see every interaction as a pleasurable learning process, you will be on the fast track to success. Study how people react to you. Try different things. Continually refine your approach and behavior. Take notes on your approaches and results. Consider yourself a scientist of human behavior, specializing in attraction.
So don’t beat yourself up over one phone call, one date, or even one dude. If you get rejected, learn from it, then add your lesson to your arsenal of attraction. Soon, you will be unstoppable.
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